Problems

Everyone has their problems, and of course life wouldn't be life without its ups and downs, but you have to deal with your problems.

For someone like me, I don't have a lot of problems. However, the problem for me is that I'm then creating my own problems. But the thing is that most of the time, in my society, our problems are so little. I know that might not make many people feel better, because all in all, they still are problems and they play a dominant part in our life. Also, some people do have very big problems, let me tell you my problems and what I do about them, which I know many of you would not like to hear, but I think they can help you, so please listen.

As for me, I have little sisters and my mother works overseas. I won't say much more, but loneliness is one of my major problems. Loneliness is part of life. Of course no man can survive without much needed company but you know, some of the most inspirational moments can come out of loneliness. Of course, that doesn't often help you deal with it, but know that no matter how hard it is, you have to overcome it. This is because, obviously, that you will always run into it. Remember "It's your life" by Bon Jovi? Personally, I love that song because it focuses on the fact that no matter what, it really is your life. For me, the idea of wanting to commit suicide is insane, but I understand the reason, its not just random, obviously, but you have to build your strength and know that its your life. Its not the end if your really awesome boyfriend dumps you or your best friend moves away. I know these are light examples. That's because I don't really want to go into the saddest examples.

My mother I have always admired. I was sad that day she had to leave overseas, and I was so worried. I told her, sadly, that despite trying to be strong, I didn't think that I could live on if she left me forever. She told me that "its your life" and although it maybe seems like a dark tunnel if something terrible like that happened, you will get over it, and you do have to be strong. Also, don't ponder it in the meantime. I know most therapists will say that you have to confront the worst scenario and tell yourself that you can live with it, then think what you can do about it. The problem for me is that I always am so stricken and terrified about something bad happening that I don't think about what I can do. This is something I personally have to work on, and I know that I have to confront some things, but people, out there, good luck because there will be so many ups and downs, and some really downs, but climb out of that giant hole and smile up at the sun again, because you CAN do it. Have faith, good friend (or person that I don't know:))